It takes time and brainpower to plan and prepare a weeks’ worth of family meals. But even after all that work, how can you be sure that everyone at the table is meeting their nutrition needs?
While it’s not your responsibility to make sure every family member eats, it is your job to provide balanced meals. Studies show children will get the nutrition they need when offered a wide variety of foods. But in a world where nutrition advice can be very confusing, what exactly should that variety be?
While there are no strict rules to family meal planning there are “nutrition essentials” that every mom should know about.
1. Have dinner together most nights
Research continues to support the multitude of benefits to family dinners. In fact, a study in the Journal of Adolescent Health revealed that the 6th, 7th, and 8th graders who ate dinner with their family consumed fewer soft drinks, ate breakfast, were less concerned about their weight, and were more confident about eating healthy at home and with friends.
Remember to include your smallest family members in this family ritual. Once babies transition to finger foods, for example, they can eat most of what everyone else is eating. Of course, you’ll have to take into account their ability to chew and swallow certain foods. Cutting items into small pieces will often work.
2. Provide a nutritious variety of fruits and vegetables
To ensure an array of nutrients choose at least one vitamin C-rich fruit and one vitamin A-rich vegetable. Vitamin C fruits (orange, strawberries, cantaloupe – click through to see list) are perfect at breakfast when eaten with iron-rich cereals (C increases iron’s absorption). This is especially important for children under 2 years of age when they are at the highest risk of iron-deficiency.
Vitamin A-rich vegetables (spinach, carrots, kale, etc., are a vital part of a balanced diet. If your child rejects green vegetables, try vitamin-A rich carrots, sweet potatoes and cantaloupe until their palates come around.
3. Make half your grains “whole”
When choosing whole grains try to make half of them whole. Whole options grains include whole-wheat bread, whole grain cereals, oats, quinoa, and brown rice with meals.
4. Feast on fish twice a week
The American Heart Association recommends that Americans consume fish at least twice a week. While most people associate fish with heart health, it is also extremely beneficial for brain health. That’s because fish contains the essential omega-3 fatty acids docosahexaenoic acid (DHA) and eicosapentaenoic acid (EPA) not found in plant sources. If your family doesn’t eat fish then they aren’t getting enough of these powerful nutrients. And kids, whose brains are still developing, especially need DHA and EPA.
If you never serve fish start out preparing it once a week by trying salmon, halibut, shrimp, or trout. You can also make tuna sandwiches at lunchtime. Most experts believe the benefits of fish outweigh any risk associated with methyl mercury. Just in case, follow the FDA guidelines to avoid swordfish, shark, tilefish, and king mackerel and consume no more than 12 ounces of low mercury fish and canned light tuna (no more than 6 ounces of canned albacore tuna) per week.
Read: DHA for Kids: The Complete Guide for Parents
5. Provide a variety of protein sources
When planning protein for meals remember 2-2-2 – fish, lean meats and poultry and beans twice a week. Growing children benefit from the easily absorbed iron and zinc in animal proteins.
Dietary Guidelines for Americans recommend that Americans consume at least 3 cups of beans every week. That includes black, kidney, pinto, and garbanzo beans. Beans are packed with B vitamins, iron, and fiber and can be included as the main meal or a side dish.
6. Choose your vegetable oils wisely
Emerging science suggests that Americans consume too much omega-6 fatty acids. You see, we evolved from a diet with equal amounts (1:1) of omega 6 and omega 3 yet the ratio we eat today is somewhere between 10:1 and 30:1. Changes in the food supply over the last 100 years have allowed for mass production of vegetable oils like soybean, cottonseed, and corn oil all high in omega 6. A diet out of balance can increase the risk of inflammation and chronic health conditions like heart disease.
Whenever possible, cook with olive and canola oil, both relatively low in omega-6 fatty acids. Consider making your own salad dressings or find a prepared one made with olive or canola oil.
7. Let them have low-fat dairy
Did you know 9 out of 10 children don’t get enough calcium? Low-fat dairy products are rich in calcium and other nutrients. 2- to 8-year olds need 2 servings of milk products a day, 9- to 18-year olds need 3 servings a day and 19-50+-year-olds need 3 servings a day. A serving equals 1 cup of milk/yogurt or 1.5 ounces of cheese. If you and your family won’t (or can’t) eat dairy consider calcium-fortified juice, soy, or rice beverages.
Do I always serve my family perfect nutritious meals? No! But it’s good to have a goal each week when I sit down and plan for the week ahead.
Wayne Evans says
The other point is to get them to help!
Maryann Tomovich Jacobsen, MS, RD says
You are right!
Okay – I know this is old – but if you have any tips for having a husband that’s allergic to dairy, fish (not shellfish), and beans – I’m all ears! At this point, I’ll likely be cooking separate meals for myself and my son once he starts eating table food.