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Why Exercise is Important to Me

December 12, 2014

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Exercise has always been a very important part of my life. And here I detail what’s really behind my motivation to stay active.

I rush to get to kickboxing class at 9:30. Heidi, the teacher, keeps our heart rate up for an hour and she fits in strength training exercises. On the days I can’t make it to class, I run or go to the gym. Saturdays, I meet a friend at the nearby lake and we run the 5-mile loop.  Sunday I rest.

I’ve been a lover of physical activity my whole life. Likes most kids in the 70’s, I played hard after school and spent summers living at the pool. At age 9, I discovered softball and played year-round until my sophomore year of high school when I switched to cheer. After high school, I made a pact with a friend to go to the gym since we had no planned activities. I became hooked after my first aerobics class.

Whether it’s running, classes or the gym, I’ve maintained regular exercise my entire adult life (except for a 6 months hiatus after Big A was born).  But I know this is not the norm for everyone.

The wrong why demotivates

In my career, I’ve found that people often initiate exercise for health and weight reasons. But those reasons aren’t enough to carry them through life’s tough spots.  And by that, I mean the typical life stressors — the kids get sick, work gets more demanding and to-do lists grow. It seems motivation can easily wane when the scale doesn’t move or the doctor’s scare tactics wear off.

If just knowing something is good for us was enough to make it a habit, everyone would be doing it.  Instead, these good-for-us activities get in line with all the other things we need to do.

It’s not that people don’t enjoy them, it’s that this important tidbit gets buried underneath the nagging sense that we should be doing it. Unfortunately, something that comes naturally to all human beings, such as moving our body, becomes a burden instead of a joy.

The right why keeps you motivated

So why do some of us maintain regular exercise while others don’t?

I think it has more to do with the reasons for doing it than discipline or willpower. While I value health, the real reason exercise is important to me is it makes everything in my life better. I am in a better mood, have more energy and patience with kids and get better sleep. And when I’m actually exercising I love how moving my body feels — it’s like I can feel the stress work off me.

Every time I start working out obsessing about an unsolvable problem, it transforms into a doable challenge by the time I’m done. Exercise is the best sounding board I know — and it can keep a secret.

That doesn’t mean my mind doesn’t try to trick me into making this great love of mine a burden by reminding me of all I have to do (especially this time of year).  That’s why I try my best to stay mindful and remind myself what I gain, today, from exercising. But some days I make the conscious decision to skip it when I know it will just be too hard to fit in or I feel my body needs a break.

You know it’s December when the gym loses its crowds and parking spaces open up at the nearby lake. As I go for a jog, I make eye contact with the other runners and we nod that knowing nod.  We’re not there to drop pounds or because we have willpower of steel. We show up — even during the holidays — because this thing called exercise has become so tightly woven into our lives, we can’t imagine life without it.

Is exercise is important to you?

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  1. Terry McCurdy says

    December 12, 2014 at 10:20 am

    I agree, exercise is what I do when I wake up super early in the morning. On the very few days I do miss, I feel as though I’m walking through sludge, my day just isn’t right. Exercising regularly keeps me energetic and allows me to try new things (like a few years ago when my then 24 year old son taught me to surf at 51!) even at my advancing age!

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    • Maryann Tomovich Jacobsen, MS, RD says

      December 12, 2014 at 11:37 am

      That’s awesome Terry!

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  2. Alli says

    December 12, 2014 at 10:32 am

    Great read! Here’s my real reason to hit the gym/trail: http://dontpanicmom.com/blog/2014/10/06/the-real-reason-i-exercise/

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    • Maryann Tomovich Jacobsen, MS, RD says

      December 12, 2014 at 11:37 am

      That great Alli. I almost titled my post The Real Reason I Exercise. Great minds think alike ; )

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  3. Cheryl Strachan says

    December 12, 2014 at 1:15 pm

    Great article. I also feel sluggish and restless if I don’t exercise for a few days. What I really look forward to is that first lungful of cool, fresh air after getting the bike going hard enough to need a really deep breath. And I love the energized feeling after even a 10-minute brisk walk.

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  4. Gillian says

    December 12, 2014 at 2:55 pm

    Yes! This completely resonated with me, Maryann. I’ve been exercising longer than I haven’t been exercising and long ago I realized that my best thoughts come to me when I’m knee deep in the runner’s high, full of sweat. Exercising makes my body and my mind feel fantastic but particularly since becoming a mom almost 9 years ago, it enables me to spend time by myself – free of kids and family and work – which is absolutely critical to my mental sanity!
    When I can’t fit in a workout, I do pushups at home and my kids love to count and cheer me on. It’s not time alone and it’s not the endorphin-filled wonderland, but it’s better than nothing.
    My husband is a reluctant exerciser. I hope that my kids learn to love the sweat the way that I do – hopefully leading by example is sufficient.

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  5. Sarah Remmer says

    December 15, 2014 at 10:48 pm

    Love this so much Maryann! I’ve always tried to explain my love (almost addiction–in a healthy way) to exercise to friends and family, but haven’t been able to eloquently put it into words. What resonated the most was the part where you mention that exercise makes life better- it helps you sleep, helps you to be patient with your kids, etc. It’s so true–life is just so much better with even just 30 minutes of sweating, isn’t it? Thanks for writing this great piece 🙂 Happy holidays to you and your family!

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